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I work in an office where  all day I watch people respond to thousands of things. I have found that in the majority of the responses are those that don’t rock the boat. We are a people who hate conflict. For some, they will do anything to keep the peace.
What happens when this desire to [...]

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I look at this commandment and see how often I place a period after “neighbor.” In my head I repeat and live by the commandment of, “love your neighbor.” I am realizing how much I miss the the whole of what God is asking of me to do. It sounds weird to think that God [...]

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Resolution
The last stage of the grieving process is the most coveted place to be. Resolution is the desired end within the whole process. This is probably the hardest stage to get to. Resolution is coming to the place of acceptance and closure to your wounds and grief. I say this is the coveted stage because [...]

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Pure Grief

Pure Grief
Psalm 31:9-10
“Be merciful to me, O Lord, for I am in distress; my eyes grow weak with sorrow, my soul and my body with grief. My life is consumed by anguish and my years by groaning; my strength fails because of my affliction, and my bones grow weak.”
David was a man who knew sorrow [...]

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Anger

So far we have tackled two out of the five stages of grief. Within the first two stages of the grieving process, denial and bargaining, there is little need to find an outlet. Both denial and bargaining do not require a lot of emotion, therefore these two stages might be easier to overlook in your [...]

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The second stage of the grieving process is bargaining. A bargain is usually described as a transaction or agreement that takes place between two people. One or both parties usually walk away with something in the end. This is an emotionally tricky stage to spend a lot of time in. When it comes to grief, [...]

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Denial

The first stage of the grieving process is denial. Dictionary.com defines denial as “an assertion that something said, believed, or alleged is false.” Psychologists define denial as “an unconscious defense mechanism used to reduce anxiety by denying thoughts, feelings, or facts that are consciously intolerable.”
Denial can be seen and heard in many different ways. For [...]

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