Have you ever been mesmerized by someone speaking? (This can be in conversation or up in front of a crowd.) Have you ever felt captivated by someone’s words? Have you ever wanted to be in on what someone else was getting fired up about?
Those are the times where you are listening to the heart most present.
I love listening to the heart. I love listening, and responding, to people who are so full of passion. Passion makes the heart overflow.
I smile so big when the person speaking recognizes they have just had a “carried away” kind of moment.
Maxwell has a great quote that I love – “Leaders must hear from God before they speak for God.”
There is such a marked difference when someone is speaking from the heart. I am always captivated by someone who has experienced, and wrestled through, what they are talking about.
Experiences that are so a part of us are easy to talk about. I know for me, there are some things that are so easy for me speak about. This can be both topics of passion or pain. Things of the heart do not need a script.
I want to be this kind of a speaker and communicator. I want to be the kind of person who speaks from what is in my heart. Always. I desire for people to experience the overflow of my heart. I know this can go both ways with negative things as well, but it’s my desire nonetheless.
I want to encourage you to wrestle first before speaking. Maybe this is what James meant when he said, “be quick to listen, and slow to speak.” I want us to be passionate people about really knowing God. I desire so much for us to be a people who offer out of the overflow of intimacy in wrestling with him.
Wrestle with the hard things. Wrestle with your story.
Do you know how the disciples were recognized? They were seen, and heard, as people “who had been with Jesus.” I want that for you and me!
I value the heart so much. I value what the overflow is saying. So in my own version of Maxwell’s quote, internalize it before you verbalize it.
What can you talk about that needs no script?